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In the wake of the Newstown, Connecticut tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary, as with most tragic events, opportunists begin to crawl out of the woodwork almost immediately. One example is Facebook page designed to look like memorial pages.

Facebook pages that spring up shortly after major news breaks should be considered suspicious at best. Just because it’s on Facebook and has thousands of followers, does not make it legitimate.

Why would people do something like this? Profit! Plain and simple, profit.

Since hearing of the tragedy, my heart has been so heavy. I’ve experienced every range of emotion – I’ve cried, prayed, cursed, questioned God, cried some more. I tried to sleep, but it was as though I could hear the cries of mothers as a very large part of their soul was being torn from them, when they were told their child would not be coming home.

I’ve wanted to do something – anything – to help those babies and their families. I didn’t know what I could possibly do, from Podunk Indiana – then I saw the fake pages and knew there was something I could do about that.

If there’s one thing I do know – it’s the Internet! I rolled up my sleeves and got busy!

The short version of what happens…

Facebook pages have sprung up for each victim of the Sandy Hook Elementary shooting. This is an example of the fake page created in the name of Emilie Parker – at the time of this writing, it is 11:40 PM, Saturday. This page shows it was created 6 hours ago. Moments after the names of all the victims were released.

emilie parker fake facebook page

When the father, Robbie Parker issued his statement to the media, he mentioned the Emilie Parker Fund Facebook page – obviously that is the one the family has authorized and the one I trust.

This is what the Emilie Parker Fund page looks like and the link that takes you directly to that page is just below. The person in charge of this page has shared some adorable pictures of Emilie and her family.  Pay them a visit, leave them a note and donate to the memorial fund if your heart guides you to do so.

emilie parker fund page

Emilie Parker Memorial Fund Facebook Page (Link)

As you happen across pages that are obviously fake, especially in this case, when it’s tiny children that are being exploited – don’t hesitate to report them.

How to report the fake page to Facebook:

In the upper right portion of the page, just under the header picture – you’ll click on the dropdown menu labeled MESSAGE as shown here:

report fake facebook pages

Click on Report Page – to display an option as shown here:

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You can choose the option that is most fitting to the report. Click Continue and that’s it.

There may not be a lot we can do – but we can do our best to keep opportunistic asshats from profiting off such tremendous loss.

Do me a favor!

As you make your way around Facebook and find pages or groups that appear to be for Sandy Hook victims or their families, drop a comment below with the link. I intend to keep an updated page with links to the legitimate pages – should people want to visit and get to know the victims and the lives that should have been.

Leave your comments with the fake pages too! Maybe if enough of us report them, they’ll come down quicker.

Hugz

Gayla

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"I’ve had a lot of worries in my life, most of which never happened." ~ Mark Twain

Recently I saw a comic of an elderly man, on what I believe was his death bed. The caption read: I have wasted much of my life worrying about homosexual strangers. The intention was humor, but it certainly had a different effect on me. I began to ponder: what am I wasting my life on?

There are so many things in and around us that we have absolutely no control over such as the weather, the economy, the actions of others – yet, we worry, we ponder, we dissect in attempt to find some morsel we can run with in our efforts to change whatever haunts our thoughts and consumes our time.

Many of us spend an enormous amount of time worrying about these unchangeable things, only to realize we have wasted valuable time we can’t possibly get back. Worry does nothing to change the object of our obsession; instead it changes US. Worry makes us miserable, depressed, anxious, yadda yadda. Eventually, by giving in to so much worry, we become a victim.

At the end of the day, the ONE thing we do have 100% control of is ourselves. We CAN control our thoughts, our attitude, our emotions, our behavior and our words. We have THAT choice. Granted, it’s a tough choice sometimes, but it’s still a choice!

According to the Law of Attraction, the Bible and many uplifting philosophies, we recognize our lives, the power to control ourselves is far more important than a human mind can possibly imagine. Some people know it; most do not.

Oh, it is easier to sit around, moping and whining about stuff we can’t control that to accept what we do control. I’m guilty, big time! Even though I have been a follower of the Laws of Attraction for several years and have witnessed unbelievable miracles and experiences, there are times I fall victim to the spell of worry. Once that annoying bug sets in, it takes a strong hold and it’s extremely difficult to break free from.

Over the last several months, I have fallen under that time-consuming spell. I have worried myself sick over a few things. While logic tells me I have ZERO control over them, I still worried. I’d try to refocus my thoughts and it would suck me right back in.

Well, I’m tired of worrying and I am going to do something about it!

I’m going to do exactly what my LOA lessons have taught me – I’m going to find the courage I KNOW lurks deep inside me. I AM going to take responsibility for MY life and those things I CAN change. I will be AM happy! I will be AM productive and I will DO make a difference!

Do you worry too much about things that you can’t change?

Will you join me in BEING the Change?

What will you begin with? What about YOU or your life are you going to take control of today?

My desktop wallpaper is a big bright Be the Change! to help remind me every single day that real change IS taking place. Go With It!

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Oops Someone’s Comment Spammer Bot Broke

I can’t help it – I have to find a little humor in moderating comments. It’s bad enough seeing the canned responses one at a time, but when you see the entire list of canned responses all at once, I’m saying someone’s comment spammer bot broke or I’m seeing a brand new comment spammer in training.

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